Ihr Lieben,
ich möchte mich bei allen bedanken, die mier so lieb geantwortet haben.
Wer Felix sehen will, in meinem Profil sind zwei Bilder. Keine Angst, er sieht wie ein "normales" Baby aus mit ganz vielen dunklen Haaren. Allerdings hat er einige blaue Flecke, die von den Heftpflastern herkommen, da Babys ja eine ganz empfindliche Haut haben.
Ich habe ein sehr schönes Gedicht gefunden, dass gut beschreibt, wie mit "uns" umgegangen werden soll:
PLEASE, don't ask me if I'm over it yet, I'll never be over it.
PLEASE, don't tell me she's in a better place. She isn't here with me.
PLEASE, don't say at least she isn't suffering.
I haven't come to terms with why she had to suffer at all.
PLEASE, don't tell me you know how I feel, unless you have lost a child.
PLEASE, don't ask me if I feel better. Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up.
PLEASE, don't tell me at least you had her for so many years.
What year would you choose for your child to die?
PLEASE, don't tell me God never gives us more than we can bear.
PLEASE, just say you are sorry.
PLEASE, just say you remember my child,
If you do PLEASE, just let me talk about my child.
PLEASE, mention my child's name.
PLEASE, just let me cry.
-- Borrowed from The Compassionate Friends
Alles Liebe
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